Over the last decade the number of online dating sites, particularly those specifically designed for BBWs (big beautiful women) and their admirers, has grown. It is clear that many people are looking online for dates and partners.
Although women tend to be apprehensive when it comes to using online dating sites, because the majority of women text regularly, use Facebook and/or visit chat rooms, they are more familiar with online life.
If you are a man interested in dating a BBW then it is important that you are aware of some key secrets that will help you have a successful time using online dating sites.
As women are not shy when it comes to sharing their horror stories and experiences using these dating sites, you will most likely want to make sure that you don’t become the star of one of these horror stories.
If You’re A Nice Guy – Prove It
The very fact that you are looking into how to become successful at online dating, means that you are probably a nice guy. If that is the case, this is the image that you should communicate across to potential dates.
You need to make sure that your manner and words show your respectful and patient nature. If you are looking for “the one” then it is important that you show yourself in the best possible light.
Don’t Push Her For Personal Details Or A Meet-up
Keeping patience in mind, BBWs that you chat to through dating sites may not feel comfortable with sharing their real name in the beginning. You should not take offence to this and understand that this is a security measure on her part and perfectly acceptable.
Over time as you chat casually and you get to know each other, you will build a level of trust and this will lead to you sharing more personal information. If you put too much effort into rushing a meet-up or asking her for personal information like her real name, then you will only push her away.
Use A Recent Picture Of Yourself
This is something that a lot of men do not take seriously enough. While it may be tempting to show that hunky picture of you when you were in your early 20’s and had the body of a sportsman, it is dishonest if you no longer look the same.
As being honest and gaining trust is important in any relationship, online or offline and particularly in the beginning, you should be honest about your appearance.
There is no point really in lying about anything on a dating site, because the truth has a habit of coming out and not always at the most opportune moments. By being honest about anything you tell someone you are interested in dating, you are showing her your true colours and that what you say can be trusted. It would be bad would it not if you told her you were 6 ft. 5, had the body of Gerard Butler and she met you only to discover you were 5 ft. 2 and had a beer belly.
