If you are currently dating a BBW or big beautiful woman or are attracted to one and wish to start dating, there are some things you need to bear in mind. Many larger ladies have commented that the problem is often that men do not know how to approach and talk to BBW’s. In order to help you with your dating technique, this post will discuss some tips that you should put into action to make sure your dates are successful.
Don’t Mention Her Weight
It might seem a fairly obvious thing, but this is often something that men get wrong. Although it is definitely a good thing that some men are attracted to larger women, that doesn’t mean it, should come up in the first conversation. Avoid saying things like “I’ve always fancied BBW’s”, “I love big ladies” or similar things. The reason being is that by drawing attention to her weight, you are making her feel like you are only talking to her because of her body.
Larger Girls Are Still Girls
You should always keep in mind that BBWs are not mystical or magical creatures and there is no special way in which you should speak to them. There is no special technique involved – just treat them the same as any other girl, chat to them and get to know them.
Don’t Be Offended By Her Suspiciousness
Many bigger ladies have had bad experiences with men in the past when it comes to dating. They have dated men who would have sex with them, but make fun of big girls to their friends or guys who say all the right things but don’t want to be seen in public with them. This obviously has a detrimental effect on their self-esteem, so don’t take it personally when they are cautious and may seem untrusting. The best thing you can do is just reassure them that you are attracted to them as a person and just be patient.
Stay Humble
As harsh as it sounds, there are many men out there who think they should get a reward because they are attracted to BBWs. Obviously this is untrue, though that is not to say no-one understands that it might be hard for you with your family and friends and their opinions. But, just remember that no matter hard it is for you, it is even harder for the big girl that you are dating. They are full of insecurities about those sorts of things too, so always keep that in mind.
Take Them Out In Public For Dates
You really shouldn’t hide your BBW girlfriend away from the world. It is offensive and unkind and can really hurt your significant other. When you are out with them, it is also important that you make an effort to look couple-y, because often when people see a guy out with a big girl, they just assume that they are friends. Particularly if the guy is stand offish and trying to hide the fact that they are dating.
