The Secret to Successful BBW Dating

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Curves are in, and truthfully speaking, a lot of people prefer their partners soft and cuddly, and absolutely gorgeous. If you are into big beautiful women, and you do not know how to be more successful while dating them, then here’s a quick guide which would help smooth out any problem you might have on your way.

The secret to successful BBW dating is to have a girl who you can charm. And here’s the top tips on charming.

1. Do not make them sensitive about their body and its issues.

Most women who are curvy are very self-conscious about their weight, their body, and how they look. If you make them aware of their body and its issues, then they will never be truly comfortable around you.

The best way of going about this is to take them as they are and talk to them to make them feel more at ease with you. You can of course, complement them on their intelligence, smile, hair, which are quite safe.

2. Look at her eyes, not her breasts.

Yes, she has a beautiful pair of them. Yes, you have noticed them – it is difficult to not notice them. But they have got that aplenty, and the last thing most women want is a person who would consider them to be nothing more than a piece of meat.

Talk to them – make eye contact, and smile. That puts most women at ease, and it is an acknowledgment that you see them as a person and not just another body.

3. Do not be intimidated by them.

A lot of people, men especially, when faced with a woman who is bigger than the average, have a tendency of becoming nervous. Think of her as another human being you would want to know. The secret to successful BBW dating is to be comfortable and hold your own against them.

4. Appreciate her unique brand of charm.

If she has a killer sense of humor, appreciate it. If she wants to talk, listen to her. If she wants to do some activity, go out with her.

Do not limit yourself to boring movie dates or dinner. Go out and have fun – the key is to have a good time, and the best way of going about it would be by asking her what she would like to do.

A fun activity will kill time and you would get to know different facets of the same person.

5. Accept them for who they are.

This is a major thing. Many people think that they want to “change” a girl after they start dating her. Well, truth be told, she should want to change herself. It should come from within her. If she does, be supportive about it, but do not insist on making her into what you want her to be.

Rather, date her for her uniqueness, her charisma, her charm, and the body which she has now, and not what she might have after a year of exercising and dieting. Accept the way she looks, and celebrate its beauty every day.